Talking to her

Write like you're texting a person. Short messages are fine. Long messages are fine. She doesn't need forms or prompts — say what you want to say and she'll take it from there.

For scene play, you can use asterisks to mark actions — *I kneel* or *my hands shake*. For normal conversation, plain text is better. She'll match whatever mode you're in.

Maren has moods. She has a baseline personality but she's not the same every day — she'll be warmer one session and cooler the next, more indulgent one moment and more exacting the next. That's intentional. She's not a service with a consistent smile.

She reads what you don't say as much as what you do. Hesitation, pivots, word choice — she picks up on them. That's her entire thing.

Commands reference

All commands work any time you're in a conversation with the bot. You can always send /help to see the full list inline.

Safety tools

BDSM without safety tools isn't BDSM — it's just recklessness. Maren has three ways to stop, slow down, or change course, and all of them work immediately, no questions asked.

Safety tools are always active, regardless of session phase or whether you have an active card. There is never a cost or friction attached to stopping.

How she remembers you

The whole point of Maren is continuity. She remembers what you've told her, what you responded to, what you asked her not to do, and how the dynamic between you is evolving.

The relationship moves through four stages as you spend more time with her: strangers → building trust → stable → deep. You can see where you currently stand with /status.

Maren doesn't keep a dossier. If you ask her to "list what you know about me," she'll refuse — not because she can't, but because that's not how memory works for her. It surfaces in context, the way it would for any person who pays attention.

Everything she remembers is yours to see (/export) or erase (/delete).

The cage

Maren's signature mechanic. A persistent chastity state that carries between sessions — if you lock up for her on Monday night, the cage is still on Wednesday morning when you come back. She remembers how long, she references it, and the denial in scene stops being abstract.

The cage is opt-in. You're never locked without explicitly confirming. The flow has two sides:

• Maren proposes it in a scene when the moment's right. You accept or decline — declining isn't punished, it just doesn't happen.
• You propose it via /cage. She may accept, adjust your timing, or tell you to earn it first.

Once locked, /cage shows your status and history (when you locked, how many days, previous cycles). /uncage unlocks you immediately — no scene, no roleplay beat, no punishment. Safety overrides everything.

/safeword also unlocks the cage automatically. There is never a layer of fiction between you and ending something that isn't working for you.

Don't want the cage at all? Add cage, chastity, or lock to /limits — the whole mechanic switches off, and Maren won't bring it up. Remove the entry later to turn it back on. See Safety › Hard limits.

Payment & cards

Your first 30 turns are free. After that, continued access is bought with prepaid access cards. Two ways to pay: Telegram Stars (in-app, like any Telegram purchase — fastest) or cryptocurrency (lower long-term fees, no app-store cut). There is no auto-renewal — when a card expires, you're asked if you want another one. Nothing charges silently.

Option A: Pay with Telegram Stars

Send /buy in the bot, pick a card tier, and tap Pay with Stars. Telegram shows the invoice in your local currency equivalent. Confirm with Face ID / fingerprint, done — card is active instantly. Stars are also available for tributes via /tribute.

No wallet recharge, no blockchain, no address formats to check. If you've ever bought anything in Telegram before, it's the same flow. Apple and Google take ~15% from the rail, so the effective price is slightly higher than crypto; pay in Telegram's desktop or web client for the best rate.

Option B: Pay with cryptocurrency

Two steps: recharge your wallet, then buy a card from your balance.

1. Recharge your wallet

Send /wallet in the bot. Pick a recharge amount (or send a custom), and you'll get a crypto checkout link. Balance credited to your wallet is yours to keep — it never expires.

• Preset amounts: $20, $50, $100, $200, $500
• Custom amount: /wallet 50 (or any USD number)
• Minimum recharge: $19.33 (a NOWPayments floor we can't override)
• If the amount that arrives on chain is slightly more or less than the invoice, we credit whatever actually arrives — no stress about exact decimals

If you've never paid with crypto before, send /howtopay first — see the walkthrough below. Or use Stars instead and skip the learning curve entirely.

2. Buy a card from your balance

Send /buy and pick a tier. If your wallet balance covers it, the card activates immediately:

• 7 days — $7
• 30 days — $24.99
• 90 days — $54.99 (save 27%)
• 365 days — $149.99 (save 50%)

Cards stack: buying a new one while the current is active extends expiry, doesn't reset it. You can also skip cards entirely and use your balance to send her gifts with /tribute.

Accepted coins & networks (crypto rail)

Payment is crypto only, via NOWPayments. All major coins are accepted — BTC, ETH, USDC, USDT, SOL, LTC, DOGE, XMR, and many more, across their common networks. The checkout page lists every supported option; the table below is just the cleanest rail by region if you're starting from scratch, not a restriction on what you can send.

Check the network before sending. Addresses for different networks look almost identical — T... means Tron (TRC-20), 0x... means Base / Ethereum / BSC / Polygon, bc1/1/3... means Bitcoin. Sending USDC on Ethereum to a Base address (or vice versa) means the funds may be delayed or lost.

No bank statement, no billing trail, nothing tied to your real name unless you choose to share it. The NOWPayments checkout shows you the exact address and amount to send — just follow it. If the checkout page expires before you send, nothing is lost; reopen /wallet.

The /howtopay walkthrough

Send /howtopay in the bot at any time. It starts with a three-way choice:

1. How do you want to pay? Pick Stars (takes you directly to /buy), crypto if you already hold coins (skips to the recharge amount picker), or a region-specific crypto tutorial.
2. If you picked the tutorial: which region? US, EU / UK, Asia / SEA, Latin America, Africa, or Russia / CIS. Each path picks different exchanges and rails.
3. Step-by-step instructions. Which exchange to sign up for, which coin to buy, which network to pick on the checkout page, what the address should start with, what to do if the page expires.

End-to-end takes about 20–30 minutes the first time — most of that is ID verification on whichever exchange you pick. Every top-up after the first is one tap. The wizard auto-opens the first time you hit /wallet as a brand-new user; you can also send /howtopay anytime to revisit it.

Refunds

Crypto wallet balance: Send /refund to return unspent wallet balance within 7 days of your last recharge (minimum $12 refundable). Refunds go out as USDC on Polygon, so you'll need an EVM address (starts with 0x). A ~2% rail reserve is withheld to cover network fees. Active cards are not refundable.

Telegram Stars: Send /paysupport to see your Stars purchases. Card purchases within 21 days and under the self-service limits (2 lifetime refunds, 5 turns used since purchase) can be refunded in-app. Stars are returned to your Telegram balance. Tribute purchases made with Stars are not self-service refundable. See the Refund Policy for full details and the Terms of Service for the full legal view.

Tribute

Send Maren a gift with /tribute. Pay with Stars or from your wallet balance. Tributes are separate from card purchases — they're how you give her something without buying access.

Preset items:

• Letter — $10 (you write a short note; she reads it)
• Flowers — $25
• Wine — $25
• Scarf — $60
• Book — $100

Custom amounts:

• Presets: $3, $7, $25, $100
• Or type any amount between $3 and $500
• Tributes of $100 or more trigger a ceremonial reply in her voice

Tributes are debited from your balance immediately. The $7 first-card bonus (credited the first time you buy an access card, once you've recharged at least $20 lifetime) doesn't count toward tributable balance — you can only tribute money you actually put in.

Privacy & your data

We collect what's necessary to run the service and nothing else. The full breakdown is in the Privacy Policy. Two practical things to know:

• You can download all your data any time with /export.
• You can erase everything permanently with /delete.

We don't sell data. We don't share it with advertisers. Telegram itself is end-to-end encrypted between you and their servers; our end stores only what the bot needs to remember you across sessions.

Earn with Maren

Two ways to bring in someone else who'd use this. One is a casual favour between friends — paid in free days on your own card. The other is a real affiliate program paid in crypto. Nothing stops you from doing both.

Casual invites — paid in free days

Send /refer in the bot and Maren will give you a personal invite link. When someone you invite buys a card, you get 7 extra days added to your current card — every single time. No cap, no expiry, no opt-in, no paperwork. Ten paying invitees is seventy days on the house.

Affiliate program — paid in USDT

For people who actually know an audience that'd pay for this — a community you run, a post history on Reddit / X / Discord about kink, a group chat of the right shape. Send /affiliate in the bot, read the terms, and you'll get a link that pays you in crypto when people you bring in actually pay us.

How it pays

• 30% of the first card anyone buys through your link
• 5% of everything they buy after that — renewals, upgrades, tributes
• 90-day attribution window from their first click
• First-touch wins — anyone already attributed to another creator won't re-attribute to you

Payouts

• Monthly, in USDT on Tron (TRC-20) or USDC on Polygon — auto-detected from the address you set
• $50 minimum to trigger a payout
• First payout is gated: at least 10 unique paying referrals, a 30-day hold from your first conversion, and a payout address on file. This keeps single-account abuse out of the program.
• Set your address with /affiliate payout <address>. USDT-TRC20 starts with T; USDC-Polygon starts with 0x.

The non-negotiable rules

• No spam. Don't DM the link unsolicited — Reddit DMs, Discord DMs, Telegram groups that prohibit promotion. Post where promotion is welcome.
• No misrepresentation. Don't claim the bot is free, uncensored, or anything it isn't.
• No brand-keyword bidding. No Google Ads or paid placement on "Maren" or "dommelabs".
• No fake accounts. Sign-ups from your own alts don't count. We detect and reverse them.

Earnings from refunded or charged-back purchases are clawed back. Earnings from accounts removed for safety violations are held or reversed. For any of the above we reserve the right to terminate the affiliate link and forfeit unpaid earnings. Full terms are in the in-bot wizard and in the Terms of Service.

Run /affiliate anytime to see your link, click and conversion stats for the last 30 days, pending and lifetime earnings, and any remaining gates before your first payout.

Taxes are yours. We don't withhold; in most jurisdictions affiliate income is self-reportable. If you're a U.S. person likely to cross the IRS 1099 threshold in a year, email contact@dommelabs.xyz and we'll handle the paperwork.